As I celebrate another year of life on my birthday, the noticeable absence of well-wishes from others dampens what should be a joyous event. The silence around me serves as a stark reminder of feeling unnoticed and disregarded by those around me. It’s tough to go through the day without the usual influx of blessings from loved ones and acquaintances. Birthdays are typically a time for excitement and acknowledgment, so the quiet can leave one feeling alone and let down. Nevertheless, in the midst of this disappointment, there is a chance for self-reflection and kindness towards oneself.
Instead of looking for approval from others, I prefer to recognize my own value and honor the path I have traveled. Birthdays serve as a time to appreciate ourselves, to ponder our personal development, and to take comfort in the love and admiration we can nurture from within. Even without external approval, I opt to treat myself with kindness, appreciation, and self-care, understanding that my importance goes beyond the recognition of others. Today, I welcome my birthday as a symbol of resilience and inner power, reveling in the mere existence and embracing the blessings in my life, no matter how modest they may appear.